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Get Your Ex Back --Making Up After Breaking Up Related Links Snoring Affects Erections Normal Penis Size Normal Height for a Man Men Who Prefer Masturbation Foods That Help to Prolong Erections Six Pack Abs- Step by Step Sugar Directory-Check Out the How Much Sugar Is In Food You Eat Snoring Raises Your Risk of Stroke Better Tasting Sperm Good Night's Sleep Helps You Lose Weight September 26, 2009 By Tom Hopke So, you messed up. You know. She knows it. But now you want to get her back. She is the one you want, even if you never told her that enough. But how exactly do you do that? How do you win back her love and affection? What tips actually work, and what strategies are more likely to get win you put on permanent "block" in her cell phone? Here's the deal. The problem you are facing is faced by men all over the world, no matter who they are or what's in their bank account. So don't despair. Don't hang your head, man. Even Prince Harry, the 24-year old third-in-line heir to the British throne, had to work to win back the affection of his girlfriend Chelsy Davy after they broke up. Here are some tips that can help you win her back. 1. Analyze Before You Leap. What separates man from monkeys? We analyze better. So, use your advantage. Switch on your brain before you do anything. Before you pick up the phone. Before you utter a word to her friends. Before you make a mistake. Get out a pen and paper and write down your recollection of when you noticed things first going bad. You'll be surprised at the amount of detail that starts to show up on the page once you start writing it down. Now, draw a line down the middle of a blank page. On the right hand side put all the reasons for the breakup that YOU alone are responsible for. On the left put her share of the blame. Now, here's the hard part. Fold the page n half so only the half showing your part of the blame shows. Why? What's fair about that ? She is partly to blame after all, right? But the truth is, she is not interested in sharing blame. That's why she left. Reminding her of what she has to do will not work as a strategy for winning her back. Maybe after you get back with her, you two can both start working on her side of the page. But not now. Once you have your part of the blame clearly in focus, then you are ready to put a game plan into motion. 2. Make Her Laugh. When a girl leaves you, she is either angry or shut-down. Either way, the easiest way back into her heart is not through drama. It's through comedy. Make her laugh. As a 2000 study by Professor Robert Provine of the University of Maryland found: women seek men who make them laugh. Other studies from other universities have confirmed the same thing. One study from researchers from Westfield State College in Massachusetts McMaster University in Hamilton, Ontario, asked more than 200 male and female college students to look at photos of members of the opposite sex. Some had funny quotes pinned beneath them, such as: "My high school was so rough we had our own coroner." Others had bland ones: "I'd rather walk to school than take the bus." Women went for the guys with the funny quotes. They ranked them as "more friendly, fun and popular". The funny guys were ranked higher as potential boyfriends or husbands. Guys, listen up. Funny works. Witty works. Not stupid, not lame jokes. But the kind of funny that shows that you've got a sharp brain. It worked for Prince Harry. To get back with his ex, he sent a life-sized action figure to her apartment. Forget flowers. That can come later. Send her something that will bring a smile to her lips. Maybe a singing telegram. Maybe a cartoon in an e-mail. Laughter opens up the heart. Once it's open, then it's time for step 2. 3. Make a Pact. There is a basic difference between men and women. Men love adventure. Women love security. Many women leave when they can no longer muster up the faith in you to believe your promises. So, make a pact. Write down a Contract . And sign it. Type it up nice and pretty. Promise to stop drinking, stop womanizing. Put in a penalty so she'll get something if you break your promise. Promise her something that matters, like "I'll pay for 3 dinners at our favorite restaurant with your new boyfriend, if I break my promise". That should get her attention, and make your promised more believable. By the way, guys, these contracts are probably enforceable in a court, so only promise what you can deliver. Again, this one worked for Prince Harry and has worked for many other men. 4. Look Good. Don't let yourself go. You'll just look pathetic. It won't arouse sympathy in her. It will arouse her pity. Bad move. Instead, get a new shirt, suit up, clean up, groom it up. Remember, you're selling and she's buying. If she recently broke up with you, then she is probably still in the window-shopping phase with other men. Make sure you stack up well in comparison. Get to the gym. Look good. Smell good. 5. Smile. In a landmark 2006 study from the University of California at Santa Barbara found that women choose men as potential dates or long-term partners who project positive emotions. Why? Researchers believe that women are programmed through evolution to choose men who are masculine and who have positive emotions towards children. Subconsciously, women are selecting masculine men for short-term relationships and men who are positive towards children for long-term relationships. And, women are actually very good at picking out these future traits just from looking at the faces of men. The most important cue women pick up on as to whether you are a positive or a negative guy is your smile. So, guys, think positive and let it show through. Show the pearly whites. 6. Attack from the Rear. In a battle, it's always a good tactic. Don't make a frontal approach. Go through her friends. They are her biggest influencers. They are probably the ones who talked her into leaving or supported her decision to leave. This tip worked when my brother-in-law broke u with my sister. He started his campaign to win her back by admitting his flaws, and coming clean with her friends. He kept saying "all I want is a chance, all I want is for her to take my phone calls..." They took pity on him, and started softening up my sister. He was back with her in 3 months. You're on first base. 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